{"id":10433,"date":"2014-05-28T16:50:19","date_gmt":"2014-05-28T14:50:19","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.fundacioorienta.com\/?p=10433"},"modified":"2019-11-26T10:16:30","modified_gmt":"2019-11-26T09:16:30","slug":"poc-temps-estar-fills-em-sento-culpable","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.fundacioorienta.com\/en\/poc-temps-estar-fills-em-sento-culpable\/","title":{"rendered":"TINC POC TEMPS PER ESTAR AMB ELS FILLS. EM SENTO CULPABLE."},"content":{"rendered":"\n<style type=\"text\/css\" data-created_by=\"avia_inline_auto\" id=\"style-css-av-av_one_full-6126cab7d8fab8d08143dd2dacdf673c\">\n.flex_column.av-av_one_full-6126cab7d8fab8d08143dd2dacdf673c{\nborder-radius:0px 0px 0px 0px;\npadding:0px 0px 0px 0px;\n}\n<\/style>\n<div  class='flex_column av-av_one_full-6126cab7d8fab8d08143dd2dacdf673c av_one_full  avia-builder-el-0  el_before_av_one_half  avia-builder-el-first  first flex_column_div av-zero-column-padding  '     ><p>\n<style type=\"text\/css\" data-created_by=\"avia_inline_auto\" id=\"style-css-av-av_hr-d50449065512dfb87382cb0128eaa335\">\n#top .hr.hr-invisible.av-av_hr-d50449065512dfb87382cb0128eaa335{\nheight:100px;\n}\n<\/style>\n<div  class='hr av-av_hr-d50449065512dfb87382cb0128eaa335 hr-invisible  avia-builder-el-1  el_before_av_button_big  avia-builder-el-no-sibling '><span class='hr-inner '><span class=\"hr-inner-style\"><\/span><\/span><\/div><br \/>\n<div  class='avia-button-wrap avia-button-center  avia-builder-el-2  el_after_av_hr  avia-builder-el-last '>\n<style type=\"text\/css\" data-created_by=\"avia_inline_auto\" id=\"style-css-av-av_button_big-6edc8064b87b44cadbbde9b4d4e934c7\">\n#top #wrap_all .avia-button.av-av_button_big-6edc8064b87b44cadbbde9b4d4e934c7{\nbackground-color:#d65799;\nborder-color:#d65799;\ncolor:#ffffff;\ntransition:all 0.4s ease-in-out;\n}\n#top #wrap_all .avia-button.av-av_button_big-6edc8064b87b44cadbbde9b4d4e934c7:hover{\nbackground-color:#d65799;\ncolor:#ffffff;\ntransition:all 0.4s ease-in-out;\n}\n#top #wrap_all .avia-button.av-av_button_big-6edc8064b87b44cadbbde9b4d4e934c7 .avia-svg-icon svg:first-child{\nfill:#ffffff;\nstroke:#ffffff;\n}\n#top #wrap_all .avia-button.av-av_button_big-6edc8064b87b44cadbbde9b4d4e934c7:hover .avia-svg-icon svg:first-child{\nfill:#ffffff;\nstroke:#ffffff;\n}\n<\/style>\n<a href='' class='avia-button avia-button-fullwidth av-av_button_big-6edc8064b87b44cadbbde9b4d4e934c7 avia-icon_select-no avia-color-custom'   aria-label=\"TINC POC TEMPS PER ESTAR AMB ELS FILLS. EM SENTO CULPABLE.\"><span class='avia_iconbox_title' >TINC POC TEMPS PER ESTAR AMB ELS FILLS. EM SENTO CULPABLE.<\/span><\/a><\/div><\/p><\/div>\n\n<style type=\"text\/css\" data-created_by=\"avia_inline_auto\" id=\"style-css-av-av_one_half-6126cab7d8fab8d08143dd2dacdf673c\">\n.flex_column.av-av_one_half-6126cab7d8fab8d08143dd2dacdf673c{\nborder-radius:0px 0px 0px 0px;\npadding:0px 0px 0px 0px;\n}\n<\/style>\n<div  class='flex_column av-av_one_half-6126cab7d8fab8d08143dd2dacdf673c av_one_half  avia-builder-el-3  el_after_av_one_full  el_before_av_one_half  first flex_column_div av-zero-column-padding  column-top-margin'     ><p>\n<style type=\"text\/css\" data-created_by=\"avia_inline_auto\" id=\"style-css-av-av_hr-d9809661cd2dad3f6dd7ceda1a736b76\">\n#top .hr.hr-invisible.av-av_hr-d9809661cd2dad3f6dd7ceda1a736b76{\nheight:1px;\n}\n<\/style>\n<div  class='hr av-av_hr-d9809661cd2dad3f6dd7ceda1a736b76 hr-invisible  avia-builder-el-4  el_before_av_image  avia-builder-el-first '><span class='hr-inner '><span class=\"hr-inner-style\"><\/span><\/span><\/div><br \/>\n\n<style 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class='avia_textblock'  itemprop=\"text\" ><p><strong><span style=\"color: #808080;\">Escrit per Iolanda Ferreras (Psic\u00f2loga)<\/span><br \/>\n<\/strong><\/p>\n<\/div><\/section><\/p><\/div>\n\n<style type=\"text\/css\" data-created_by=\"avia_inline_auto\" id=\"style-css-av-av_one_half-0aa7055fe62c3622faec82866afbaeb2\">\n.flex_column.av-av_one_half-0aa7055fe62c3622faec82866afbaeb2{\nborder-radius:0px 0px 0px 0px;\npadding:0px 0px 0px 0px;\n}\n<\/style>\n<div  class='flex_column av-av_one_half-0aa7055fe62c3622faec82866afbaeb2 av_one_half  avia-builder-el-8  el_after_av_one_half  el_before_av_hr  flex_column_div av-zero-column-padding  column-top-margin'     ><p>\n<style type=\"text\/css\" data-created_by=\"avia_inline_auto\" id=\"style-css-av-av_hr-5d74ded74483867bcf4f6bb06a94fdee\">\n#top .hr.hr-invisible.av-av_hr-5d74ded74483867bcf4f6bb06a94fdee{\nheight:5px;\n}\n<\/style>\n<div  class='hr av-av_hr-5d74ded74483867bcf4f6bb06a94fdee hr-invisible  avia-builder-el-9  el_before_av_textblock  avia-builder-el-first '><span class='hr-inner '><span class=\"hr-inner-style\"><\/span><\/span><\/div><br \/>\n<section  class='av_textblock_section av-av_textblock-396ddf1f42196ca838231e61a4602801 '   itemscope=\"itemscope\" itemtype=\"https:\/\/schema.org\/BlogPosting\" itemprop=\"blogPost\" ><div class='avia_textblock'  itemprop=\"text\" ><blockquote>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\">Cada cop m\u00e9s mares i pares es troben amb un sentiment de culpa per desitjar viure, ser i fer alguna cosa m\u00e9s enll\u00e0 dels fills i la fam\u00edlia.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\">Combinar fam\u00edlia, vida de parella i vida personal \u00e9s un equilibri complicat que acaba pesant en la consci\u00e8ncia de pares i mares que no saben com reaccionar davant la demanda d\u2019atenci\u00f3 dels seus fills.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<\/div><\/section><br \/>\n\n<style type=\"text\/css\" data-created_by=\"avia_inline_auto\" id=\"style-css-av-av_hr-d50449065512dfb87382cb0128eaa335\">\n#top .hr.hr-invisible.av-av_hr-d50449065512dfb87382cb0128eaa335{\nheight:100px;\n}\n<\/style>\n<div  class='hr av-av_hr-d50449065512dfb87382cb0128eaa335 hr-invisible  avia-builder-el-11  el_after_av_textblock  avia-builder-el-last '><span class='hr-inner '><span class=\"hr-inner-style\"><\/span><\/span><\/div><\/p><\/div>\n<div  class='hr av-av_hr-a7fe9dadedadf73632d453ab65ef3906 hr-default  avia-builder-el-12  el_after_av_one_half  el_before_av_one_full '><span class='hr-inner '><span class=\"hr-inner-style\"><\/span><\/span><\/div>\n\n<style type=\"text\/css\" data-created_by=\"avia_inline_auto\" id=\"style-css-av-av_one_full-6126cab7d8fab8d08143dd2dacdf673c\">\n.flex_column.av-av_one_full-6126cab7d8fab8d08143dd2dacdf673c{\nborder-radius:0px 0px 0px 0px;\npadding:0px 0px 0px 0px;\n}\n<\/style>\n<div  class='flex_column av-av_one_full-6126cab7d8fab8d08143dd2dacdf673c av_one_full  avia-builder-el-13  el_after_av_hr  el_before_av_hr  first flex_column_div av-zero-column-padding  '     ><section  class='av_textblock_section av-av_textblock-396ddf1f42196ca838231e61a4602801 '   itemscope=\"itemscope\" itemtype=\"https:\/\/schema.org\/BlogPosting\" itemprop=\"blogPost\" ><div class='avia_textblock'  itemprop=\"text\" ><h4><span style=\"color: #333399;\"><strong>Un sentiment m\u00e9s habitual en les mares que en els pares<\/strong><\/span><\/h4>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Sovint escoltem a la consulta mares i pares (sobretot mares) preguntant-se com fer amb els fills perqu\u00e8 els dediquen tot el temps que tenen, i senten que no fan b\u00e9 el seu paper. Solen parlar d\u2019hores de treball i sentiment de no tenir tot el temps que desitjarien per dedicar-lo als seus fills. Senten que alguna cosa no va b\u00e9: els seus fills no els fan cas, els demanen moltes coses\u2026 Els pares se\u2019n senten culpables per no saber\/poder satisfer-los o fer-los entendre la situaci\u00f3 i el seu funcionament familiar. \u00c9s aqu\u00ed quan es veu com els propis pares poden sentir-se confosos i com es debaten entre la culpa de no estar al 100% pels fills. Moltes vegades aquesta culpa es transforma en voler donar tot el que el fill demana, sense aturar-se a pensar ni escoltar el que de veritat el fill vol i necessita: la seva mare i el seu pare. Cal estar una mica atents perqu\u00e8 el m\u00e9s f\u00e0cil \u00e9s tapar aquest neguit i aquesta culpa consentint.<\/p>\n<\/div><\/section><br \/>\n\n<style type=\"text\/css\" data-created_by=\"avia_inline_auto\" id=\"style-css-av-av_hr-e66cdd4d1c44de5b154f8722474382a8\">\n#top .hr.av-av_hr-e66cdd4d1c44de5b154f8722474382a8{\nmargin-top:30px;\nmargin-bottom:30px;\n}\n.hr.av-av_hr-e66cdd4d1c44de5b154f8722474382a8 .hr-inner{\nwidth:50px;\nborder-color:#edae44;\nmax-width:45%;\n}\n<\/style>\n<div  class='hr av-av_hr-e66cdd4d1c44de5b154f8722474382a8 hr-custom  avia-builder-el-15  el_after_av_textblock  el_before_av_textblock  hr-center hr-icon-yes'><span class='hr-inner inner-border-av-border-thin'><span class=\"hr-inner-style\"><\/span><\/span><span class='av-seperator-icon avia-iconfont avia-font-entypo-fontello' data-av_icon='\ue8bf' data-av_iconfont='entypo-fontello' ><\/span><span class='hr-inner inner-border-av-border-thin'><span class=\"hr-inner-style\"><\/span><\/span><\/div><br \/>\n<section  class='av_textblock_section av-av_textblock-396ddf1f42196ca838231e61a4602801 '   itemscope=\"itemscope\" itemtype=\"https:\/\/schema.org\/BlogPosting\" itemprop=\"blogPost\" ><div class='avia_textblock'  itemprop=\"text\" ><h4><span style=\"color: #333399;\"><strong>Aprendre a dir no<\/strong><\/span><\/h4>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Hi ha nens que reaccionen for\u00e7a b\u00e9 als treballs i interessos diversos dels pares. A d&#8217;altres els costa una mica m\u00e9s i mostren comportaments m\u00e9s reclamants. \u00c9s llavors el moment de plantejar-se que el l\u00edmit \u00e9s important\u00a0 tamb\u00e9 per als fills. Saber dir \u201cNo\u201d els \u00e9s important. De vegades el demanen a crits, repetidament, en tantes ocasions com noves satisfaccions se\u2019ls d\u00f3na, tantes vegades com coses reclamen. Estan nom\u00e9s insistint en trobar finalment el \u201cNo\u201d que posi l\u00edmit a la demanda d\u2019alguna cosa que no hi ha objecte final que la pugui satisfer.<\/p>\n<\/div><\/section><br \/>\n\n<style type=\"text\/css\" data-created_by=\"avia_inline_auto\" id=\"style-css-av-av_hr-e66cdd4d1c44de5b154f8722474382a8\">\n#top .hr.av-av_hr-e66cdd4d1c44de5b154f8722474382a8{\nmargin-top:30px;\nmargin-bottom:30px;\n}\n.hr.av-av_hr-e66cdd4d1c44de5b154f8722474382a8 .hr-inner{\nwidth:50px;\nborder-color:#edae44;\nmax-width:45%;\n}\n<\/style>\n<div  class='hr av-av_hr-e66cdd4d1c44de5b154f8722474382a8 hr-custom  avia-builder-el-17  el_after_av_textblock  el_before_av_textblock  hr-center hr-icon-yes'><span class='hr-inner inner-border-av-border-thin'><span class=\"hr-inner-style\"><\/span><\/span><span class='av-seperator-icon avia-iconfont avia-font-entypo-fontello' data-av_icon='\ue8bf' data-av_iconfont='entypo-fontello' ><\/span><span class='hr-inner inner-border-av-border-thin'><span class=\"hr-inner-style\"><\/span><\/span><\/div><br \/>\n<section  class='av_textblock_section av-av_textblock-396ddf1f42196ca838231e61a4602801 '   itemscope=\"itemscope\" itemtype=\"https:\/\/schema.org\/BlogPosting\" itemprop=\"blogPost\" ><div class='avia_textblock'  itemprop=\"text\" ><h4><span style=\"color: #333399;\"><strong>Un cercle vici\u00f3s que hem d\u2019aturar<\/strong><\/span><\/h4>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">\u00c9s per aix\u00f2 que quan apareix aquest sentiment de culpa hem d\u2019estar alerta i no precipitar una resposta. Aquesta possibilitat d\u2019espera i de l\u00edmit pot fer que tant l\u2019un com els altres puguin finalment gaudir i desitjar aquest temps, encara que curt, en el que la mare fa de mare i el fill de fill; i el pare fa de pare i el fill de fill. Temps en el que la pres\u00e8ncia del pare o la mare no \u00e9s igual que quan no hi \u00e9s. Temps en el que s\u2019espera els pares per a que escolti, eduqui, estimi, o senzillament hi sigui. Temps en el que els afectes, paraules, somriures, l\u00edmits i silencis tenen un efecte especial i orientador perqu\u00e8 v\u00e9nen del pare i la mare. Pare i mare que cada fill viu, i que els necessita tal com cadasc\u00fa \u00e9s: amb els seus dubtes, angoixes, desitjos, presses, pres\u00e8ncies i tamb\u00e9 abs\u00e8ncies.<\/p>\n<\/div><\/section><br \/>\n\n<style type=\"text\/css\" data-created_by=\"avia_inline_auto\" id=\"style-css-av-av_hr-e66cdd4d1c44de5b154f8722474382a8\">\n#top .hr.av-av_hr-e66cdd4d1c44de5b154f8722474382a8{\nmargin-top:30px;\nmargin-bottom:30px;\n}\n.hr.av-av_hr-e66cdd4d1c44de5b154f8722474382a8 .hr-inner{\nwidth:50px;\nborder-color:#edae44;\nmax-width:45%;\n}\n<\/style>\n<div  class='hr av-av_hr-e66cdd4d1c44de5b154f8722474382a8 hr-custom  avia-builder-el-19  el_after_av_textblock  el_before_av_textblock  hr-center hr-icon-yes'><span class='hr-inner inner-border-av-border-thin'><span class=\"hr-inner-style\"><\/span><\/span><span class='av-seperator-icon avia-iconfont avia-font-entypo-fontello' data-av_icon='\ue8bf' data-av_iconfont='entypo-fontello' ><\/span><span class='hr-inner inner-border-av-border-thin'><span class=\"hr-inner-style\"><\/span><\/span><\/div><br \/>\n<section  class='av_textblock_section av-av_textblock-396ddf1f42196ca838231e61a4602801 '   itemscope=\"itemscope\" itemtype=\"https:\/\/schema.org\/BlogPosting\" itemprop=\"blogPost\" ><div class='avia_textblock'  itemprop=\"text\" ><h4><span style=\"color: #333399;\"><strong>Gaudir dels moments junts<\/strong><\/span><\/h4>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Quan una mare o un pare es planteja el poc temps que t\u00e9 amb els fills i l&#8217;envaeix un sentiment de culpa \u00e9s important no deixar-se portar per la culpa i no intentar compensar amb objectes o sense posar l\u00edmits. Davant el malestar dels fills i de la seva pr\u00f2pia culpa, \u00e9s possible que estiguin m\u00e9s desorientats a l\u2019hora d\u2019educar i escoltar el fill. Si un t\u00e9 la il\u00b7lusi\u00f3 de recuperar all\u00f2 perdut, corre el risc de perdre tamb\u00e9 el moment present. Hem de mirar de gaudir del moment que estiguem junts, \u00e9s\u00a0 important per construir, compartir, viure i assaborir l\u2019experi\u00e8ncia de la relaci\u00f3 entre pares i fills. De vegades aix\u00f2 vol dir senzillament escoltar els fills i atendre\u2019ls, podent sentir i fent-los sentir, que ells estan all\u00e0 i que aquell mateix moment ja \u00e9s important pel que \u00e9s, tot i sabent que de cap manera els hi podrem donar i satisfer tot. Aquest tamb\u00e9 \u00e9s un bon aprenentatge per la vida.<\/p>\n<\/div><\/section><br \/>\n\n<style type=\"text\/css\" data-created_by=\"avia_inline_auto\" id=\"style-css-av-av_hr-e66cdd4d1c44de5b154f8722474382a8\">\n#top .hr.av-av_hr-e66cdd4d1c44de5b154f8722474382a8{\nmargin-top:30px;\nmargin-bottom:30px;\n}\n.hr.av-av_hr-e66cdd4d1c44de5b154f8722474382a8 .hr-inner{\nwidth:50px;\nborder-color:#edae44;\nmax-width:45%;\n}\n<\/style>\n<div  class='hr av-av_hr-e66cdd4d1c44de5b154f8722474382a8 hr-custom  avia-builder-el-21  el_after_av_textblock  el_before_av_textblock  hr-center hr-icon-yes'><span class='hr-inner inner-border-av-border-thin'><span class=\"hr-inner-style\"><\/span><\/span><span class='av-seperator-icon avia-iconfont avia-font-entypo-fontello' data-av_icon='\ue8bf' data-av_iconfont='entypo-fontello' ><\/span><span class='hr-inner inner-border-av-border-thin'><span class=\"hr-inner-style\"><\/span><\/span><\/div><br \/>\n<section  class='av_textblock_section av-av_textblock-396ddf1f42196ca838231e61a4602801 '   itemscope=\"itemscope\" itemtype=\"https:\/\/schema.org\/BlogPosting\" itemprop=\"blogPost\" ><div class='avia_textblock'  itemprop=\"text\" ><h3><\/h3>\n<table style=\"height: 140px; border-color: #6e6969; background-color: #6e6969;\" width=\"1190\">\n<tbody>\n<tr>\n<td style=\"width: 840px;\">\n<h4><span style=\"color: #333399;\"><strong>A la pr\u00e0ctica<\/strong><\/span><\/h4>\n<ul>\n<li>Adoptar una actitud tranquil\u00b7la i serena davant les demandes dels fills, sobretot si es detecta sentiment de culpa en els pares pel poc temps que poden estar amb els fills.<\/li>\n<li>Valorar si es pot, o no, augmentar aquest temps familiar. De quina manera, si realment un creu que hi est\u00e0 poc o no\u2026<\/li>\n<li>Intentar no compensar ni recompensar amb objectes pel temps que no s\u2019ha estat amb el fill.<\/li>\n<li>Importa la qualitat de temps amb els fills m\u00e9s que la quantitat.<\/li>\n<li>Escoltar i parlar amb els fills sobre els seus interessos i sobre activitats que els permetin estar junts i compartir un temps.<\/li>\n<li>El pare i la mare segueixen sent pares i mares veient-los m\u00e9s o menys temps. \u00c9s important que el temps que s\u2019estigui amb els fills, un no dimiteixi d\u2019aquesta funci\u00f3. Tampoc es deixa de ser pare o mare el temps que no s\u2019est\u00e0 amb els fills.<\/li>\n<li>El joc i el lleure \u00e9s tant important com els h\u00e0bits i els l\u00edmits.<\/li>\n<li>No pretendre recuperar el temps perdut. Es corre el risc de perdre la possibilitat de viure i gaudir del temps que es disposa, i passaria a tenir un efecte m\u00e9s estressant, inquiet, i que no afavoriria la relaci\u00f3 i el contacte amb els fills.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<\/tbody>\n<\/table>\n<\/div><\/section><br \/>\n\n<style type=\"text\/css\" data-created_by=\"avia_inline_auto\" id=\"style-css-av-av_hr-e66cdd4d1c44de5b154f8722474382a8\">\n#top .hr.av-av_hr-e66cdd4d1c44de5b154f8722474382a8{\nmargin-top:30px;\nmargin-bottom:30px;\n}\n.hr.av-av_hr-e66cdd4d1c44de5b154f8722474382a8 .hr-inner{\nwidth:50px;\nborder-color:#edae44;\nmax-width:45%;\n}\n<\/style>\n<div  class='hr av-av_hr-e66cdd4d1c44de5b154f8722474382a8 hr-custom  avia-builder-el-23  el_after_av_textblock  el_before_av_textblock  hr-center hr-icon-yes'><span class='hr-inner inner-border-av-border-thin'><span class=\"hr-inner-style\"><\/span><\/span><span class='av-seperator-icon avia-iconfont avia-font-entypo-fontello' data-av_icon='\ue8bf' data-av_iconfont='entypo-fontello' ><\/span><span class='hr-inner inner-border-av-border-thin'><span class=\"hr-inner-style\"><\/span><\/span><\/div><br \/>\n<section  class='av_textblock_section av-av_textblock-396ddf1f42196ca838231e61a4602801 '   itemscope=\"itemscope\" itemtype=\"https:\/\/schema.org\/BlogPosting\" itemprop=\"blogPost\" ><div class='avia_textblock'  itemprop=\"text\" ><h3><\/h3>\n<table style=\"height: 260px; background-color: #6e6969;\" width=\"1190\">\n<tbody>\n<tr>\n<td style=\"width: 840px;\">\n<h4><span style=\"color: #333399;\"><strong>Preguntes amb resposta<\/strong><\/span><\/h4>\n<p><strong>Perqu\u00e8 no para quiet si ho t\u00e9 tot?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Per moltes coses que donem als fills, alguns nens es poden mostrar sempre demandants. Aix\u00f2 t\u00e9 sovint a veure amb la necessitat de passar temps amb els pares, m\u00e9s que amb objectes concrets.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Ens veiem poc i quan estem junts sempre fa alguna cosa per estar enfadats. Per qu\u00e8?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u00c9s possible que aquesta sigui la forma de mostrar el seu malestar. Sovint, quan els nens ens fan enfadar \u00e9s la forma que tenen de fer-nos sentir com ells es senten.<\/p>\n<p><strong>\u00c9s dolent que passi m\u00e9s temps amb els avis que amb nosaltres?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Hem d\u2019entendre que quan aquesta situaci\u00f3 es d\u00f3na \u00e9s per necessitat. Essent aix\u00ed, hem de procurar que el temps que passem amb ells sigui el de m\u00e9s qualitat possible, i que la culpabilitat no ens faci respondre a les demandes del fills sense pensar.<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<\/tbody>\n<\/table>\n<\/div><\/section><\/p><\/div><div  class='hr av-av_hr-dd6dd0015cec10af980480403f6a5ba8 hr-default  avia-builder-el-25  el_after_av_one_full  el_before_av_textblock '><span class='hr-inner '><span class=\"hr-inner-style\"><\/span><\/span><\/div><\/p>\n<section  class='av_textblock_section av-av_textblock-396ddf1f42196ca838231e61a4602801 '   itemscope=\"itemscope\" itemtype=\"https:\/\/schema.org\/BlogPosting\" itemprop=\"blogPost\" ><div class='avia_textblock'  itemprop=\"text\" ><h4><span style=\"color: #333399;\">Cas Cl\u00ednic<\/span><\/h4>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">El Nacho \u00e9s un nen de 5 anys i mig que arriba a la consulta acompanyat dels seus pares perqu\u00e8 a casa t\u00e9 un comportament rebel, i de vegades pega la mare (sobretot si estan tots tres junts a casa). Des de que havia comen\u00e7at a anar a l\u2019escola la mestra els havia comentat que el Nacho mostrava una actitud bastant depenent dels adults i li costava fer relacions amb els companys.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Els pares expliquen que havien esperat aquest fill amb moltes ganes. Despr\u00e9s de la baixa per maternitat de la mare el Nacho va anar a una guarderia durant els matins. La mare va reprendre la seva feina per\u00f2 uns mesos m\u00e9s tard la va haver de deixar perqu\u00e8 pensava que el seu fill la necessitava i la reclamava molt. Ella sentia que quasi no tenia temps per estar amb el nen i \u201ccuidar la fam\u00edlia\u201d. Es veu com per la mare el sentiment de culpa va agafant for\u00e7a des del moment en qu\u00e8 comen\u00e7a a separar-se del seu fill.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Durant les visites a CSMIJ es veia un nen alegre que buscava un tracte exclusiu i directe cap a ell, una mare angoixada i un pare que li costava entrar en aquesta relaci\u00f3 tant forta que el petit havia establert amb la mare (i que tant el pare com la mare es trobaven mirant d\u2019entendre m\u00e9s el seu fill perqu\u00e8 no comprenien qu\u00e8 li passava). En el proc\u00e9s de tractament la mare va trobar un espai per a parlar de les seves pors i angoixes, dels seus sentiments (Es sentia molt culpable de com estaven anant les coses a casa i\u00a0 del que la mestra els deia del seu fill), i tamb\u00e9 dels seus desitjos. A mesura que s\u2019anava donant lloc a escoltar cadascun en el seu moment diferent, es produ\u00efa un efecte de separaci\u00f3 que permetia veure com a poc a poc milloraven les seves relacions dins la fam\u00edlia. Eren m\u00e9s obertes i el nen anava acceptant m\u00e9s estar els tres a casa sense cap tipus de rabieta o enfado. Poc a por la mare es va plantejar tornar a buscar feina \u201cde lo seu\u201d, i el nen ja els explicava coses de l\u2019escola.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">En el moment de l\u2019alta el Nacho estava ja a primer, havia comen\u00e7at a llegir, i parlava dels seus amics amb els que jugava al pati i el convidaven a festes d\u2019aniversari. I havent superat aquest entrebanc, els pares es plantejaven tenir un altre fill.<\/p>\n<\/div><\/section>\n<div  class='hr av-av_hr-a7fe9dadedadf73632d453ab65ef3906 hr-default  avia-builder-el-27  el_after_av_textblock  el_before_av_textblock '><span class='hr-inner '><span class=\"hr-inner-style\"><\/span><\/span><\/div>\n<section  class='av_textblock_section av-av_textblock-396ddf1f42196ca838231e61a4602801 '   itemscope=\"itemscope\" itemtype=\"https:\/\/schema.org\/BlogPosting\" itemprop=\"blogPost\" ><div class='avia_textblock'  itemprop=\"text\" ><h4><span style=\"color: #333399;\">Refer\u00e8ncies Bibliogr\u00e0fiques<\/span><\/h4>\n<p>Psicoan\u00e0lisi i Escola Bressol. Les lleis de l\u2019univers infantil. Barcelona juny 1995. 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