{"id":10400,"date":"2014-01-22T15:54:44","date_gmt":"2014-01-22T14:54:44","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.fundacioorienta.com\/?p=10400"},"modified":"2019-11-26T14:08:08","modified_gmt":"2019-11-26T13:08:08","slug":"ajudar-fills-tenir-seguretat","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.fundacioorienta.com\/en\/ajudar-fills-tenir-seguretat\/","title":{"rendered":"AJUDAR ELS FILLS A TENIR SEGURETAT"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<style type=\"text\/css\" data-created_by=\"avia_inline_auto\" id=\"style-css-av-av_one_full-6126cab7d8fab8d08143dd2dacdf673c\">\n.flex_column.av-av_one_full-6126cab7d8fab8d08143dd2dacdf673c{\nborder-radius:0px 0px 0px 0px;\npadding:0px 0px 0px 0px;\n}\n<\/style>\n<div  class='flex_column av-av_one_full-6126cab7d8fab8d08143dd2dacdf673c av_one_full  avia-builder-el-0  el_before_av_one_half  avia-builder-el-first  first flex_column_div av-zero-column-padding  '     ><p>\n<style type=\"text\/css\" data-created_by=\"avia_inline_auto\" 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avia-align-center  avia-builder-el-5  el_after_av_hr  el_before_av_hr '   itemprop=\"image\" itemscope=\"itemscope\" itemtype=\"https:\/\/schema.org\/ImageObject\" ><div class=\"avia-image-container-inner\"><div class=\"avia-image-overlay-wrap\"><img decoding=\"async\" fetchpriority=\"high\" class='wp-image-15740 avia-img-lazy-loading-not-15740 avia_image ' src=\"https:\/\/www.fundacioorienta.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/01\/F.Orienta_donar_seguretat_als_fills-1.jpg\" alt='' title='F.Orienta_donar_seguretat_als_fills'  height=\"600\" width=\"800\"  itemprop=\"thumbnailUrl\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.fundacioorienta.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/01\/F.Orienta_donar_seguretat_als_fills-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/www.fundacioorienta.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/01\/F.Orienta_donar_seguretat_als_fills-1-450x338.jpg 450w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/div><\/div><\/div><br \/>\n\n<style type=\"text\/css\" data-created_by=\"avia_inline_auto\" id=\"style-css-av-av_hr-93258d1e5748d8ca2f23c1f46b1b36dc\">\n#top .hr.hr-invisible.av-av_hr-93258d1e5748d8ca2f23c1f46b1b36dc{\nmargin-top:-25px;\nheight:1px;\n}\n<\/style>\n<div  class='hr av-av_hr-93258d1e5748d8ca2f23c1f46b1b36dc hr-invisible  avia-builder-el-6  el_after_av_image  el_before_av_textblock '><span class='hr-inner '><span class=\"hr-inner-style\"><\/span><\/span><\/div><br \/>\n<section  class='av_textblock_section av-av_textblock-396ddf1f42196ca838231e61a4602801 '   itemscope=\"itemscope\" itemtype=\"https:\/\/schema.org\/BlogPosting\" itemprop=\"blogPost\" ><div class='avia_textblock'  itemprop=\"text\" ><p><strong><span style=\"color: #808080;\">Escrit per Brenda Taragona (Psic\u00f2loga)<\/span><br \/>\n<\/strong><\/p>\n<\/div><\/section><\/p><\/div>\n\n<style type=\"text\/css\" data-created_by=\"avia_inline_auto\" id=\"style-css-av-av_one_half-0aa7055fe62c3622faec82866afbaeb2\">\n.flex_column.av-av_one_half-0aa7055fe62c3622faec82866afbaeb2{\nborder-radius:0px 0px 0px 0px;\npadding:0px 0px 0px 0px;\n}\n<\/style>\n<div  class='flex_column av-av_one_half-0aa7055fe62c3622faec82866afbaeb2 av_one_half  avia-builder-el-8  el_after_av_one_half  el_before_av_hr  flex_column_div av-zero-column-padding  column-top-margin'     ><p>\n<style type=\"text\/css\" data-created_by=\"avia_inline_auto\" id=\"style-css-av-av_hr-d9809661cd2dad3f6dd7ceda1a736b76\">\n#top .hr.hr-invisible.av-av_hr-d9809661cd2dad3f6dd7ceda1a736b76{\nheight:1px;\n}\n<\/style>\n<div  class='hr av-av_hr-d9809661cd2dad3f6dd7ceda1a736b76 hr-invisible  avia-builder-el-9  el_before_av_textblock  avia-builder-el-first '><span class='hr-inner '><span class=\"hr-inner-style\"><\/span><\/span><\/div><br \/>\n<section  class='av_textblock_section av-av_textblock-396ddf1f42196ca838231e61a4602801 '   itemscope=\"itemscope\" itemtype=\"https:\/\/schema.org\/BlogPosting\" itemprop=\"blogPost\" ><div class='avia_textblock'  itemprop=\"text\" ><blockquote>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\">La seguretat en un mateix no \u00e9s una qualitat innata de les persones sin\u00f3 que est\u00e0 relacionada amb el sentiment de sentir-se competent i capa\u00e7, que es construeix amb els \u00e8xits aconseguits, ja siguin petits o grans.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\">A mida que adquirim aprenentatges i superem petits \u00e8xits, anem formant una imatge de nosaltres mateixos com a persones h\u00e0bils i capaces, guanyant confian\u00e7a i seguretat en nosaltres mateixos.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\">Amb cada habilitat adquirida els nens incrementen la seva confian\u00e7a.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\">La seguretat en un mateix influeix en la formaci\u00f3 de l\u2019autoestima, que es defineix com les creences i sentiments que tenim sobre nosaltres mateixos.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\">L\u2019autoestima influir\u00e0, a la vegada, en les nostres actituds, comportaments i respostes emocionals.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<\/div><\/section><br \/>\n\n<style type=\"text\/css\" data-created_by=\"avia_inline_auto\" id=\"style-css-av-av_hr-d50449065512dfb87382cb0128eaa335\">\n#top .hr.hr-invisible.av-av_hr-d50449065512dfb87382cb0128eaa335{\nheight:100px;\n}\n<\/style>\n<div  class='hr av-av_hr-d50449065512dfb87382cb0128eaa335 hr-invisible  avia-builder-el-11  el_after_av_textblock  avia-builder-el-last '><span class='hr-inner '><span class=\"hr-inner-style\"><\/span><\/span><\/div><\/p><\/div>\n<div  class='hr av-av_hr-6d15099c0d1ad8ea1829d31a079cc188 hr-default  avia-builder-el-12  el_after_av_one_half  el_before_av_one_full '><span class='hr-inner '><span class=\"hr-inner-style\"><\/span><\/span><\/div>\n\n<style type=\"text\/css\" data-created_by=\"avia_inline_auto\" id=\"style-css-av-av_one_full-6126cab7d8fab8d08143dd2dacdf673c\">\n.flex_column.av-av_one_full-6126cab7d8fab8d08143dd2dacdf673c{\nborder-radius:0px 0px 0px 0px;\npadding:0px 0px 0px 0px;\n}\n<\/style>\n<div  class='flex_column av-av_one_full-6126cab7d8fab8d08143dd2dacdf673c av_one_full  avia-builder-el-13  el_after_av_hr  el_before_av_hr  first flex_column_div av-zero-column-padding  '     ><section  class='av_textblock_section av-av_textblock-396ddf1f42196ca838231e61a4602801 '   itemscope=\"itemscope\" itemtype=\"https:\/\/schema.org\/BlogPosting\" itemprop=\"blogPost\" ><div class='avia_textblock'  itemprop=\"text\" ><h4 style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"color: #333399;\">El paper dels pares<\/span><\/h4>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Els pares poden ajudar a construir un sentiment de seguretat proposant als nens activitats per les quals t\u00e9 especial habilitat i animar-lo perqu\u00e8 les mantingui. Pel que fa a les habilitats noves, cal afavorir les oportunitats per practicar-les i perfeccionar-les, acceptant els errors i facilitant-los el recolzament necessari perqu\u00e8 ho segueixin intentant. \u00c9s important respondre amb inter\u00e8s davant les mostres dels nens de voler aprendre alguna habilitat, premiant-los amb encoratjaments quan assoleixin una nova meta o s\u2019hagin esfor\u00e7at per aconseguir-la. Per mostrar inter\u00e8s, hem d\u2019escoltar amb atenci\u00f3 i fer preguntes sobre el que ens explica de manera que vegi que ens interessa el que ens est\u00e0 dient i fomentant, aix\u00ed, la seva seguretat. La supervisi\u00f3 \u00e9s important per assegurar-nos que estan protegits per\u00f2 per aprendre cal que tinguin espai per intentar fer coses noves, cal que s\u2019equivoquin i que aprenguin dels errors. Davant la demanda d\u2019aprendre alguna cosa nova hem d\u2019explicar-los el procediment i permetre que ho facin com puguin, evitant les cr\u00edtiques i sense resoldre-ho nosaltres, si no el missatge que enviem \u00e9s que ells no s\u00f3n capa\u00e7os i nosaltres ho fem millor. Aix\u00f2 els retorna una imatge de si mateixos d\u2019incapacitat i pot arribar a dissuadir-los d\u2019emprendre nous aprenentatges.<\/p>\n<\/div><\/section><br \/>\n\n<style type=\"text\/css\" data-created_by=\"avia_inline_auto\" id=\"style-css-av-av_hr-e66cdd4d1c44de5b154f8722474382a8\">\n#top .hr.av-av_hr-e66cdd4d1c44de5b154f8722474382a8{\nmargin-top:30px;\nmargin-bottom:30px;\n}\n.hr.av-av_hr-e66cdd4d1c44de5b154f8722474382a8 .hr-inner{\nwidth:50px;\nborder-color:#edae44;\nmax-width:45%;\n}\n<\/style>\n<div  class='hr av-av_hr-e66cdd4d1c44de5b154f8722474382a8 hr-custom  avia-builder-el-15  el_after_av_textblock  el_before_av_textblock  hr-center hr-icon-yes'><span class='hr-inner inner-border-av-border-thin'><span class=\"hr-inner-style\"><\/span><\/span><span class='av-seperator-icon avia-iconfont avia-font-entypo-fontello' data-av_icon='\ue8bf' data-av_iconfont='entypo-fontello' ><\/span><span class='hr-inner inner-border-av-border-thin'><span class=\"hr-inner-style\"><\/span><\/span><\/div><br \/>\n<section  class='av_textblock_section av-av_textblock-396ddf1f42196ca838231e61a4602801 '   itemscope=\"itemscope\" itemtype=\"https:\/\/schema.org\/BlogPosting\" itemprop=\"blogPost\" ><div class='avia_textblock'  itemprop=\"text\" ><h4><span style=\"color: #333399;\">Diferenciar l\u2019elogi de l\u2019encoratjament<\/span><\/h4>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">L\u2019elogi implica mostrar lo meravellosos que s\u00f3n, o fer-los creure que s\u00f3n els millors del m\u00f3n. Va dirigit a projectar una imatge perfecta de la persona per\u00f2 que \u00e9s falsa. Els elogis construeixen una imatge idealitzada i sobrevalorada d&#8217;un mateix i per tant una imatge que no \u00e9s realista. En front de l\u2019elogi hem de potenciar l\u2019encoratjament, que t\u00e9 a veure amb mostrar que ho est\u00e0 fent b\u00e9, que est\u00e0 millorant. L\u2019encoratjament ha de ser real i aut\u00e8ntic sobre com s\u2019estan fent les tasques i els esfor\u00e7os que s\u2019hi estan posant. \u00c9s possible que el ritme de progr\u00e9s del nen no sigui el que l\u2019adult voldria per\u00f2 segur que el progr\u00e9s es d\u00f3na i hem de mostrar aquesta millora. Alguns nens tenen una imatge perfeccionista i exigent de si mateixos i rebutgen algunes tasques davant la por al frac\u00e0s. Poder iniciar l\u2019activitat al costat del adult i parlar-li de les pr\u00f2pies equivocacions els ajudar\u00e0 a veure que equivocar-se no \u00e9s fracassar. Amb tot, disposar de temps per escoltar els fills, jugar amb ells, acompanyar-los en les activitats i els nous aprenentatges, els ajudar\u00e0 a construir una imatge de si mateixos com a nens capa\u00e7os de fer el que es proposin. Hem de mostrar-los que els estimem pel que s\u00f3n, i no sols pel que fan. Aquesta sensaci\u00f3 de seguretat \u00e9s el que els ajudar\u00e0 a no tenir por davant nous reptes i, per tant, a tenir la confian\u00e7a per enfrontar-los i assolir-los.<\/p>\n<\/div><\/section><\/p><\/div>\n\n<style type=\"text\/css\" data-created_by=\"avia_inline_auto\" id=\"style-css-av-av_hr-e66cdd4d1c44de5b154f8722474382a8\">\n#top .hr.av-av_hr-e66cdd4d1c44de5b154f8722474382a8{\nmargin-top:30px;\nmargin-bottom:30px;\n}\n.hr.av-av_hr-e66cdd4d1c44de5b154f8722474382a8 .hr-inner{\nwidth:50px;\nborder-color:#edae44;\nmax-width:45%;\n}\n<\/style>\n<div  class='hr av-av_hr-e66cdd4d1c44de5b154f8722474382a8 hr-custom  avia-builder-el-17  el_after_av_one_full  el_before_av_one_full  hr-center hr-icon-yes'><span class='hr-inner inner-border-av-border-thin'><span class=\"hr-inner-style\"><\/span><\/span><span class='av-seperator-icon avia-iconfont avia-font-entypo-fontello' data-av_icon='\ue8bf' data-av_iconfont='entypo-fontello' ><\/span><span class='hr-inner inner-border-av-border-thin'><span class=\"hr-inner-style\"><\/span><\/span><\/div>\n\n<style type=\"text\/css\" data-created_by=\"avia_inline_auto\" id=\"style-css-av-av_one_full-6126cab7d8fab8d08143dd2dacdf673c\">\n.flex_column.av-av_one_full-6126cab7d8fab8d08143dd2dacdf673c{\nborder-radius:0px 0px 0px 0px;\npadding:0px 0px 0px 0px;\n}\n<\/style>\n<div  class='flex_column av-av_one_full-6126cab7d8fab8d08143dd2dacdf673c av_one_full  avia-builder-el-18  el_after_av_hr  el_before_av_hr  first flex_column_div av-zero-column-padding  '     ><section  class='av_textblock_section av-av_textblock-396ddf1f42196ca838231e61a4602801 '   itemscope=\"itemscope\" itemtype=\"https:\/\/schema.org\/BlogPosting\" itemprop=\"blogPost\" ><div class='avia_textblock'  itemprop=\"text\" ><dl class=\"article-info\">\n<dt><\/dt>\n<\/dl>\n<dl class=\"article-info\">\n<dt class=\"createdby\"><\/dt>\n<\/dl>\n<table style=\"height: 140px; background-color: #6e6969; border-color: #6e6969; width: 1200px;\">\n<tbody>\n<tr>\n<td style=\"width: 841px;\">\n<h4><span style=\"color: #333399;\"><strong>A la pr\u00e0ctica<\/strong><\/span><\/h4>\n<ul style=\"list-style-type: disc;\">\n<li>El m\u00e9s important \u00e9s creure en les possibilitats del fill<\/li>\n<li>Buscar espais de temps compartit<\/li>\n<li>Establir l\u00edmits clars<\/li>\n<li>Recolzar els desafiaments nous<\/li>\n<li>Motivar sense exigir<\/li>\n<li>Valorar l\u2019esfor\u00e7 m\u00e9s que el resultat<\/li>\n<li>Acceptar els errors com a part del proc\u00e9s d\u2019aprenentatge i no com un frac\u00e0s<\/li>\n<li>No buscar la perfecci\u00f3 sin\u00f3 la millora cont\u00ednua<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<\/tbody>\n<\/table>\n<h5><\/h5>\n<\/div><\/section><\/div>\n<style type=\"text\/css\" data-created_by=\"avia_inline_auto\" id=\"style-css-av-av_hr-e66cdd4d1c44de5b154f8722474382a8\">\n#top .hr.av-av_hr-e66cdd4d1c44de5b154f8722474382a8{\nmargin-top:30px;\nmargin-bottom:30px;\n}\n.hr.av-av_hr-e66cdd4d1c44de5b154f8722474382a8 .hr-inner{\nwidth:50px;\nborder-color:#edae44;\nmax-width:45%;\n}\n<\/style>\n<div  class='hr av-av_hr-e66cdd4d1c44de5b154f8722474382a8 hr-custom  avia-builder-el-20  el_after_av_one_full  el_before_av_one_full  hr-center hr-icon-yes'><span class='hr-inner inner-border-av-border-thin'><span class=\"hr-inner-style\"><\/span><\/span><span class='av-seperator-icon avia-iconfont avia-font-entypo-fontello' data-av_icon='\ue8bf' data-av_iconfont='entypo-fontello' ><\/span><span class='hr-inner inner-border-av-border-thin'><span class=\"hr-inner-style\"><\/span><\/span><\/div><\/p>\n\n<style type=\"text\/css\" data-created_by=\"avia_inline_auto\" id=\"style-css-av-av_one_full-6126cab7d8fab8d08143dd2dacdf673c\">\n.flex_column.av-av_one_full-6126cab7d8fab8d08143dd2dacdf673c{\nborder-radius:0px 0px 0px 0px;\npadding:0px 0px 0px 0px;\n}\n<\/style>\n<div  class='flex_column av-av_one_full-6126cab7d8fab8d08143dd2dacdf673c av_one_full  avia-builder-el-21  el_after_av_hr  el_before_av_hr  first flex_column_div av-zero-column-padding  '     ><section  class='av_textblock_section av-av_textblock-396ddf1f42196ca838231e61a4602801 '   itemscope=\"itemscope\" itemtype=\"https:\/\/schema.org\/BlogPosting\" itemprop=\"blogPost\" ><div class='avia_textblock'  itemprop=\"text\" ><table style=\"height: 150px; width: 1200px; background-color: #6e6969;\">\n<tbody>\n<tr style=\"height: 223px;\">\n<td style=\"width: 839px; height: 223px;\">\n<h4><span style=\"color: #333399;\">Preguntes amb resposta<\/span><\/h4>\n<p><strong>Com puc detectar si el meu fill \u00e9s insegur?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Hi ha caracter\u00edstiques que ens poden alertar. Solen ser nens t\u00edmids i insegurs davant persones o situacions noves i que tampoc proven experi\u00e8ncies noves per por al frac\u00e0s o a ser castigats. Solen estar neguitosos i ho exterioritzen mossegant-se les ungles, posant-se els dits a la boca o plorant amb freq\u00fc\u00e8ncia. Poden tenir s\u00edmptomes f\u00edsics com mals de cap o de panxa i irritaci\u00f3 per petits canvis o frustracions.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Com ajudar al meu fill a acostar-se a jugar amb nens al parc?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Sovint els nens tenen por a rebre un &#8220;No&#8221; com a resposta i per aix\u00f2 no es senten segurs d\u2019acostar-se a altres nens. Inicialment podem acompanyar-los en fer aquest pas i mantenir-nos en un segon pla. Podem fer-li pensar que els altres tamb\u00e9 es poden sentir t\u00edmids.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Li costa molt provar activitats noves, esports nous i quan sent que fracassa no ho vol intentar de nou.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p id=\"tab_content-1\" style=\"text-align: justify;\">Podem comen\u00e7ar amb petites activitats i servir-los nosaltres d\u2019exemple, mostrant-nos segurs en l\u2019activitat concreta i tolerant les equivocacions que puguem tenir per tal de que vegin que no cal fer-ho tot b\u00e9, sin\u00f3 que cal acceptar els errors i intentar-ho de nou. Hem de deixar l\u2019espai suficient perqu\u00e8 ho puguin intentar sense jutjar-los.<\/p>\n<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<\/tbody>\n<\/table>\n<\/div><\/section><\/div><div  class='hr av-av_hr-6d15099c0d1ad8ea1829d31a079cc188 hr-default  avia-builder-el-23  el_after_av_one_full  el_before_av_textblock '><span class='hr-inner '><span class=\"hr-inner-style\"><\/span><\/span><\/div><\/p>\n<section  class='av_textblock_section av-av_textblock-396ddf1f42196ca838231e61a4602801 '   itemscope=\"itemscope\" itemtype=\"https:\/\/schema.org\/BlogPosting\" itemprop=\"blogPost\" ><div class='avia_textblock'  itemprop=\"text\" ><h4><span style=\"color: #333399;\"><strong>Cas cl\u00ednic<\/strong><\/span><\/h4>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">En Joan t\u00e9 8 anys i els seus pares han observat que darrerament es posa a plorar davant petites equivocacions, es mossega els punys dels jerseis i les ungles. Sempre ha tret bones notes i ha estat molt aplicat, per\u00f2 al passar de curs l\u2019exig\u00e8ncia a l\u2019escola ha augmentat i el veuen tot el dia neguit\u00f3s per si oblida els deures, per si marcar\u00e0 al futbol, per si far\u00e0 b\u00e9 els ex\u00e0mens. Tamb\u00e9 es mostra irritable quan els pares no compleixen les seves expectatives. En les entrevistes familiars es posa de manifest l\u2019exig\u00e8ncia d\u2019un dels progenitors i la viv\u00e8ncia de la perfecci\u00f3 com un objectiu a assolir. Es mostra als pares que l\u2019exig\u00e8ncia que t\u00e9 el nen cap a ells \u00e9s la que el nen sent vers ell mateix. Es treballa que els pares puguin fomentar la idea de la millora cont\u00ednua i no de la perfecci\u00f3, mostrant-se ells com a exemple d\u2019errors i de superaci\u00f3. Poc a poc el Joan accepta que no fer b\u00e9 les coses no vol dir no poder-les aprendre m\u00e9s endavant. Tota la fam\u00edlia baixa l\u2019exig\u00e8ncia i es busquen m\u00e9s joc i espais de cooperaci\u00f3 que de competici\u00f3.<\/p>\n<\/div><\/section>\n<div  class='hr av-av_hr-a7fe9dadedadf73632d453ab65ef3906 hr-default  avia-builder-el-25  el_after_av_textblock  el_before_av_textblock '><span class='hr-inner '><span class=\"hr-inner-style\"><\/span><\/span><\/div>\n<section  class='av_textblock_section av-av_textblock-396ddf1f42196ca838231e61a4602801 '   itemscope=\"itemscope\" itemtype=\"https:\/\/schema.org\/BlogPosting\" itemprop=\"blogPost\" ><div class='avia_textblock'  itemprop=\"text\" ><h4><span style=\"color: #333399;\">Refer\u00e8ncies Bibliogr\u00e0fiques<\/span><\/h4>\n<p><strong>Llibres:<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Banderas, A. (2011) &#8220;Hijos felices&#8221;. Ed. Timun Mas.<\/p>\n<p>Hertley-Brewer, E. (2011) &#8220;Eres genial como eres&#8221;. Ed. Destino.<\/p>\n<p>Haeussler, I.; Milicic, N. (2006) &#8220;Confiar en uno mismo. Programa de autoestima&#8221;. Ed. CEPE. Ciencias de la educaci\u00f3n preescolar y especial.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Pel\u00b7l\u00edcules:<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Ratatouille&#8221; (2007. Dir: Brad Bird)\u00a0<a href=\"http:\/\/www.filmaffinity.com\/es\/film496720.html\"> Fitxa de la pel\u00b7l\u00edcula<\/a><\/p>\n<\/div><\/section>\n<div  class='hr av-av_hr-a7fe9dadedadf73632d453ab65ef3906 hr-default  avia-builder-el-27  el_after_av_textblock  el_before_av_textblock '><span class='hr-inner '><span class=\"hr-inner-style\"><\/span><\/span><\/div>\n<section  class='av_textblock_section av-av_textblock-396ddf1f42196ca838231e61a4602801 '   itemscope=\"itemscope\" itemtype=\"https:\/\/schema.org\/BlogPosting\" itemprop=\"blogPost\" ><div class='avia_textblock'  itemprop=\"text\" ><dl class=\"article-info\">\n<dt><\/dt>\n<\/dl>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/creativecommons.org\/licenses\/by-nc-sa\/4.0\/\" rel=\"license\"><img decoding=\"async\" style=\"border-width: 0;\" src=\"https:\/\/i.creativecommons.org\/l\/by-nc-sa\/4.0\/88x31.png\" alt=\"Llic\u00e8ncia de Creative Commons\" border=\"0\" \/><\/a><br \/>\nAquesta obra est\u00e0 subjecta a una llic\u00e8ncia de <a href=\"http:\/\/creativecommons.org\/licenses\/by-nc-sa\/4.0\/\" rel=\"license\">Reconeixement-NoComercial-CompartirIgual 4.0 Internacional de Creative Commons<\/a><\/p>\n<\/div><\/section>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"","protected":false},"author":8,"featured_media":15739,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[431,432,433,437],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-10400","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-3a6anys","category-7a10anys","category-11a15anys","category-aprenentatge"],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v28.0 - 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